This. This is the photo that did it for me. Apparently the DMV didn't know about my trick of camera angles so that I don't look like such a troll. The picture on the left is from 8 years (and 60 lbs) ago- back when the angle of the camera didn't matter. In those 8 years I've gotten married, had 3 children (just had #3 six weeks ago), and lost my mom. Anyway, after leaving the DMV today, I texted my husband this hideous photo and made some joke about how I will never eat again. He texted back telling me that I'm beautiful......and that's when I lost it. I just started crying. Look at what I've done to myself. How can he possibly still think I'm beautiful? Whether he's lying to me or not, I was thankful for those words in that moment even though I didn't believe it myself. So after I let myself have a good cry, I realized I had a decision to make. I could continue to cry and feel sorry for myself, or I could do something about it. I looked at my baby and thought about my other boys and chose the latter. They need me, the real me....not this depressed, lazy person that I have become. I have gypped them out of the real me for their entire lives. It's not fair and they don't deserve it. I don't deserve it.
So- today is my Someday.....the day I always allude to when I think or say, "I will lose weight someday" or "Someday, I will begin my journey to a happier, healthier me." I know WHAT I have to do......I've done this before. I am ready to take control and stop making excuses. I eat when I'm bored, I eat when I'm stressed, I eat because it's yummy, and I eat whatever I want because it's easier than it is to plan out meals, and count points or calories or whatever. I have stopped working out because it is just easier to come home and play with the kids or watch TV. I am back to feeling sluggish, irritable, and just plain ugly. I hate having my photo taken - even though I know these boys aren't going to stay little forever.
I will be writing in this blog for motivation, to keep myself accountable, and to figure out why I keep self-sabotaging my weight loss efforts. I will be taking it one day at a time. For now, that's all I can do. It's all about choices- and each time I make a good choice, I will just be that much closer to my goal.